Oh, BROTHER. Well, though the whole suicide thing is very sad, I don’t agree with what Paula Goodspeed’s brother is saying about what caused this mentally ill girl to kill herself in front of Paula Abdul’s house. Basically, he is blaming Paula for everything:

“[Abdul] didn’t speak up for her. She let everyone take her down,” McIntyre told The Post from his home in Maine.

“She [Abdul] said she was ’speechless,’ when she could have said something in her defense.”

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Uh, really? Watch this and see if you agree:

Huh. You know, just because you THINK you can sing, doesn’t mean you SHOULD. Maybe if this girl’s brother had spent more time encouraging her in her other talents and gifts, instead of giving her delusions that she actually could go all the way to Hollywood, she would still be here today.

Well, she just has fantastic luck with men, doesn’t she? Paula Abdul, who broke up with boyfriend J.T. Torregani a couple months ago, is now experiencing every ex-girlfriend’s worst nightmare: she’s being stalked. Here’s more:

Paul Abdul has told ex J.T. Torregani to stay away- and she’s even threatening to have him served with a restraining order because she claims he has violent outbursts and is stalking her!
The “American Idol” judge says 33-year-old restaurateur J.T. tried to kick down the door of her Los Angeles home- and she’s now so scared she has hired a bodyguard, according to pals.
“Paula says she’s terrified over what J.T. might do,” a source close to the performer told The Enquirer. “She claims they broke up after eight months and she put him out of her house. J.T. started harassing her.
“Paula complained that J.T. left dozens of voicemails and text messages on her phone, and when she didn’t reply, the messages became more and more menacing.”
Paula also claims J.T. has been showing up at shops and restaurants she frequents, looking for her, added the source.

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No matter how nutters Paula is, she definitely does not deserve this kind of treatment. Unfortunately, a restraining order can have the opposite effect for which it’s intended. Hopefully the police will take this very seriously.